Monday, April 13, 2009

Special Moments...

I have been back in Kazakhstan for several months now and things are starting to get busy. I have settled back in to my responsibilities and am feeling "at home" in Taraz. It has been great to reconnect with friends here and have recently made some new friends which has been great for my Kazakh and a chance to share my life with others.

Recently I had a chance to go out to one of the orphanages 2-hours away for a visit. On my way I stopped to pickup a woman who needed a ride. Now in America most people would never think about picking someone up on the road but here it is a relatively common occurrence. The Kazakh woman was 60 years old, had two daughters and an estranged son. She was coming from a funeral and needed to get to a village about 30 min. down the road. In those moments together I learned about her family and her hopes for her children. I learned that her husband died a few years ago and that she has taken in a young woman who doesn't have any relatives to help her. And of course I was encouraged by her surprise of an American speaking Kazakh and her heart that seemed kind and compassionate. My life was blessed by the few minutes we spent together.

Upon arriving at the orphanage I was greeted by Yulia who ran up to the car with outstretched arms. She also showed me where she put my name in chalk at the entranceway so I would see it when I drove in. She and I have been corresponding for the last year and it is good to see her hopeful for a better life. Her's is a life that has been transforming over the years. When delegations first started coming to Kazakhstan she was one of those kids who stood off at a distance, never smiled and was often moody. Through consistency, encouragement and love she has been learning to trust others and is trying to make some positive changes. She certainly smiles more often! What a blessing to see a difference in a life...oh to "care for the orphans and the widows in their distress..." ~ it is my life which is transformed through such special moments.

2 comments:

Marcia said...

Hello Beth,
Just a note to say I was touched by your post, and that it reminded yet again of the goodness of the people of Taraz and the Zhambyl Region. When I was in Taraz adopting Sara Marina (in January-March 2004) and Kate (in September-November 2006) I was so often struck by the thought that we Americans can learn so much from the people of Kazakhstan--how they spend much time together as a family and focus on each other, about the goodness of simplicity in our lives, and how their tradition of toasts during gatherings was an amazing way to openly express their love and gratitude for the people in their lives.

God bless you for the blessing you are to others. You are doing wonderful work with both the young and old you encounter.
Marcia from Wisconsin

Beth Turnock said...

Thank you Marcia for your kind words and all the best to your family. Yes, Kazakh people have much to teach us...about family, about our perspective on time and what is valuable. Thank you for supporting our work! God Bless